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Sunday, 28 August 2011

I blog how i feel, my life

At times life can feel so bleak and painful, like now i am feeling miserable.

I am feeling down and trying hard to find ways to get out of it.
Depression and sadness is so so painful.

However, I try my really best to escape feelings of loss or sadness but i did not put on a mask to be someone else to feel happy.

Really =) i am learning to be happy when i am sad.

Seriously i don't care, i just wanna be happy and get over the sadness in me.

Telling myself over and over again i can do it. I think about people ard me who loves me.

Maybe from now on i can try being part of a community activity to look at life with a new perspective.

But for the time being,I am still feeling quite sad.

Although i been doing all my best to avoid being SAD!

Haha, its rather easier to say then to get things done.
 
It's time to buck up!!
 
Do things within my limits and not pushing myself that far till i got lost.
 
So be the same. Stay happy.

Nothing

To me i prefer pictures then words...maybe i am not too good with words? Seriously, i don't where to start for this rushed post =(
Shall briefly do a summarize of what i see and what i experience for today alright? =)

Saturday, 27 August 2011

Nothing to fear

Its been so long since i last blog...

I just told myself that from tonight onwards i gonna make my life a big different.

Maybe i don't even love you.
Maybe i don't even need you.
Maybe i should give myself a second chance.

You are always on my mind.

Taking 1 step at a time.
It may be slow but am sure the results gonna prove me that everything i done will be worth.

Am not getting any younger.
I don't wanna lag behind anyone else.
Especially you.

I will be more confidence.
More happy.

Tell me i gonna do it alright?

I keep my finger cross with my heart telling myself i gonna do it. Discipline is all i need.

Saturday, 20 August 2011

My Lunch cost Rm9.90

Mushroom & Garlic Bread...
















Grilled Fish & Chip

















Ice-Lemon Tea






















Chocolate Brownie with Ice-Cream







Unknown

because I'm busy playing and have no time to blog. =.='

Tuesday, 16 August 2011

How to Make Time Go by Faster ??

  • Find unfinished tasks around the house that need completing.
  • Find a favorite movie
  • Read a book.
  • Do art or craft
  • Help someone else.
  • Relax
  • Stop watching the clock
  • Breathe deeply.
  • Do an in flight fitness workout.
  • Learn a few body tricks.
  • Count to 99 on Your Fingers.
  • Power Nap.
  • Finish a Crossword Puzzle/Suduko.
  • Listen to music.
  • Watch TV.
  • Start to sketch whatever you feel like.
  • Think or plan what to do after coming home from school(what you are going to eat today or what you plan to do like watching TV.
  • Find an interesting video on youtube then keep clicking related videos.
  • Do texting on a cell phone to a friend or to family, or call friends.
  • Write a short story, fiction -- or write non-fiction.
  • Write an article.
  • Shoot a video, short electronic "film".
  • Make photo images/pictures.
  • Searching the Internet can also make time fly by fast.

Friday, 12 August 2011

How to Create a Personalized Signature

Think about the idea of what you want your signature to be like.

Decide the general font style you want your signature to be in.

Get a sheet of paper out.

Write your name plainly and simply.

Add lines and extra symbols to it until you find which one is best for you.

Practice signing your name until you can form new signature with ease.

How to find a job you’ll love

1: Decide to switch sooner rather than later

No one has ever told me “I quit Company X in June, that was a mistake. I should have stuck around longer.” The vast majority of people who quit, only wish they’d done it sooner.
It’s highly tempting to hang around in the old workplace waiting for things to get better. Don’t! If it’s time to go – make that decision and start actively looking for something else. The longer you stay in a bad job, the more it eats away the energy and self-confidence you need to find a new one.

2: Give yourself time to find your new job

The very first job you look at may be just the right one… or it may be the 20th.
Give yourself time to actively look for something better and don’t let economic pressure, peer pressure or uncertainty force your hand.

3: Focus on what you like at work, not on what you hate

Many people switch jobs to get away from a bad situation. However, when you’re picking a new job, it’s not enough to look at all the things you want to avoid. Partly because there are an infinite number of things to avoid. But mostly because even if you avoid every single bad thing, that can only guarantee that you won’t be unhappy. To be happy at work, you also need good things, not just the absence of bad.
The best way to find out what you want at work, is to look at what has previously made you love your job. Here’s how you do it:
  1. Think back to some specific situations, where you’ve been happy at work.
  2. Ask yourself what made these situations possible.
  3. Find out what will give you more of these great experiences in the future.

4: Ignore salary

Most people think that having a higher income would make them happier. They’re wrong! That is the conclusion of a study by Two Princeton professors, economist Alan B. Krueger and psychologist and Nobel laureate Daniel Kahneman. They say this:
The belief that high income is associated with good mood is widespread but mostly illusory. People with above-average income are relatively satisfied with their lives but are barely happier than others in moment-to-moment experience, tend to be more tense, and do not spend more time in particularly enjoyable activities.
I don’t mean to ignore the economic necessities we all face but they should not determine what work we take. What is a 25% raise worth, if it means being stressed, frustrated and unhappy 40/60/80 hours a week?

5: Ignore other irrelevant details

Some people choose their new job because of:
  • The title. “They want to make me First Assistant Manager.”
  • Perks. “They’re giving me a new car and use of the executive bathroom.”
  • Status. “I get 8 direct reports. Today I only have 5.”
  • Peer pressure. “If I take this job my husband/wife/friends/dad will be really impressed.”
None of these factors will make you happy! Forget about them.

6: Ask for what you want

It’s a lot easier to get what you want if you actually ask for it. In your job interviews, let them know that being happy at work matters to you, and tell them what it takes to get you to love work.
It’s true that asking for these things may mean not getting the job, and that’s precisely the point! If that job won’t make you happy, you don’t want it!

7: Make that job great

It’s up to you to find a good job, and then it’s up to you to make it a great job!
You can sit passively on your butt and wait for your co-workers and your manager to make you happy – but that means nothing will ever happen. It’s your responsibility to:
  1. Know what makes you happy at work
  2. Tell others about it
  3. Do something about it

8: Make yourself free to leave

A bad job is bad. A bad job that you can’t get out of is excruciating. In fact, knowing that you’re free to leave can make it easier to make a job great

Thursday, 11 August 2011

How to Choose the Right Job

1. Benefits. This is something often overlooked by young adults just starting their careers, but benefits can be worth up to 30% of your total compensation, according to Quintessential Careers, a job search and advice Web site. Start by finding out how much medical and dental coverage you'll get, which flexible spending plans the employer offers and whether the company offers a pension savings plan -- and if it will match your 401(k) contributions. You also should consider other financial perks that come with the job, such as tuition reimbursement, signing bonuses, relocation expense reimbursement and home-buying assistance. Don't underestimate the value of non-financial perks either, such as flexible work hours or telecommuting opportunities.

2. Location. Tempting as it may be to launch your career in Boston, New York, Los Angeles or San Francisco, you may find it just as rewarding -- and a heck of a lot cheaper -- to look beyond the bright lights and high rents of those meccas for twentysomethings. By considering locations with a lower cost of living such as Atlanta, Minneapolis or Austin, Tex., your paycheck dollars will stretch further. Check out our picks of smart cities for singles and young couples for more prime locations to consider. And be sure to check out the June issue of Kiplinger's Personal Finance magazine when it hits newstands in May for this year's picks of smart places to live for young professionals.

3. Commute. This may not seem like a big deal at first, but fluctuating gas prices can impact your budget if you've got a long commute -- not to mention sitting in traffic can get old really fast. Commuters take 25 minutes, on average, to get to work each day, according to the Census Bureau. If they take just as long to get home, they're spending more than four hours a week getting to and from their jobs, or more than 200 hours a year. But time isn't the only factor: Consider how stressful the commute is, too. Will you be forced to travel congested side streets or is there a more free-flowing route to the office? Is public transportation an option? Make sure you add up the cost of any bus fare, parking fees or tolls. 

4. Opportunities for advancement. No one wants to get stuck in a dead-end job. So ask your interviewer the possibility of moving up within the company and what it'll take for you to get a promotion. Find out if one job may equip you better for advancement than another. For example, are there training programs, mentor relationships or workplace education opportunities that'll allow you to sharpen your skills and make important contacts? These will help make you a more valuable asset to the company -- or increase your hirability elsewhere when you're ready to move on and move up.

5. Work environment. There are 168 hours in a week. If you spend 40 of those at work, that means you'll pass one-quarter of your week there. You better make sure you like the place and that you fit in. This reaches beyond the dress code and whether you get an office or a cubicle. Consider the company's size and culture (is it fast-paced or laid back? Hierarchal or more democratic?) Do the company's values match yours? Is it family friendly? Would you get along with your co-workers?
It can be hard to get a feel for the work environment in a formal interview. Ask a potential employer to introduce you to your future co-workers either on the initial or secondary interview. Ask them what they like and don't like about their jobs. If you haven't had that opportunity before the company makes you an offer for hire, ask for the contact info of a couple of people you would be working with and give them a call or send them an e-mail before accepting the job.

6. Job security. When you're young and just starting out, you probably aren't looking for a job that'll take you into your golden years. In fact, workers tend to changes jobs at least ten times during their adult life, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics. Still, you should assess your risk tolerance, even if you only expect to stick around for a couple years. Is the job at a start-up or a mature company? Is the firm well respected in its industry and performing well? Is the company financially stable? The last thing you want is to end up without a job because the company went out of business.

7. Level of responsibility. You'll want a job that'll allow you to utilize your hard-earned education and sharpen your skills, not one that reduces you to a coffee runner. But bear in mind that you probably won't land your dream job right out of school. You may have to "pay your dues" in some respect and work your way up the career ladder. Which brings us to our last point:

8. Where do you want to be in ten years? It sounds cliché, but this is a biggie. Will this job take you where you want to go with your career? The two job offers I received fresh out of college with my journalism degree would have led me down two very different career paths. One was centered on editing and layout design while the other focused on reporting and research. Although the salary at the first job was nearly 25% higher than the second offer, I went with the latter because it aligned better with my long-term goals. Now here I am a few years out of college, and I love my job. Focusing merely on your starting salary is so short-sighted. You need to look at the big picture.

Tuesday, 9 August 2011

Does HRP important in project ?

Human Resource Planning is the development of strategies for matching the size and skills of the workforce to organizational needs. Human resource planning assists organizations to recruit, retain, and optimize the deployment of the personnel needed to meet business objectives and to respond to changes in the external environment. The process involves carrying out a skills analysis of the existing workforce, carrying out manpower forecasting, and taking action to ensure that supply meets demand. This may include the development of training and retraining strategies. Human resource planning has traditionally been used by organizations to ensure that the right person is in the right job at the right time.

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Wednesday, 3 August 2011

Paying the salary late.. is it normal? HELP!?

I am getting really frustrated with my work. The pay date was last week Friday and we didn't get paid. Today is Tuesday.. it's nearly evening already and there's no sign of us getting our salary.. can my employer do that?.. I am getting frustrated.. should I ask for it or sue them in labor law????